Alexandra Urban, LCSW
Leesburg, VA
I’m a licensed clinical social worker with 10 years of experience and specialized training in couples therapy and trauma-informed care. I love helping couples reconnect, find compassion for each other, and feel safe and supported in their relationship. I work with couples facing challenges like high conflict, trauma, infidelity, or high-stress lifestyles. My goal is to make therapy a warm, welcoming space where even the hardest moments can be met with care, understanding, and hope.
Education & Experience
- MSW, University of Pittsburgh
- 10+ years of experience serving couples and families
Specialties
- Marital & Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Conflict Resolution
- Intimacy
- Communication
- Sexless/Withdrawn
- Affair & Infidelity Recovery
- Family Systems & Life Changes
Trainings, Certifications, and Continuing Education
- The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Brain Science (Year Long Intensive, Couples Institute), 2024
- The Gottman Method Couples Therapy
- Repairing Ruptures in Connection: Integrating Somatic Intervention into Couples Therapy; Repair and Healing Inside the Dyadic Relationship
- Sex, Desire, and Relationship Issues: Leading Sex Experts Emily Nagoski, PhD and Tammy Nelson, PhD
- Treating Rejection Sensitive Clients: An Attachment-Based Approach to Turn Rejection into Connection for Clients with Relationship Issues
- The Gottman Method to Treating Affairs and Trauma: Advanced Online Training Course
- Overcoming the Narcissistic Dynamic: Successful Treatment Techniques for Narcissistic Spectrum Clients, Their Partners and Their Children
- Attachment in Adults: How Infant Attachment Security Affects Adult Relationships
- Neuroscience for Clinicians: Brain Change for Anxiety, Trauma, Impulse Control, Depression and
Relationships, Kate Cohen-Posey, LMHC, LMFT - Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) certified
Alexandra’s Approaches include the following:
- Gottman Method
- Imago Therapy
- Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real
- Emotionally Focused Therapy








