Our Most Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer in-person couples therapy and virtual couples therapy?
Yes and Yes! We have over 20 office locations in major cities along the east and west coast and are happy to offer in-person couples therapy for you. We also learned through the pandemic that virtual couples counseling can be just as effective, so if that’s easier we provide virtual couples counseling too. Some couples even mix & match! See our Office Locations or the states in which we offer Virtual Couples Counseling.
Do you work with couples who aren’t married?
Yes! Absolutely! ALL relationships and couples are welcome at Well Marriage Center.
Do you work with non-traditional relationships?
Yes! All our therapists are licensed clinicians with advanced training and experience in relationship science. We WANT to help any and all who seek support for their relationship, however they define it.
Do you work with individuals who aren’t in a current relationship?
Yes! Any time is a good time to process how your prior attachments have shaped you and what you’re looking for in a relationship in the future…so it can be your best one!
What if my partner won’t join me? Can I attend couples therapy alone?
Yes, you can do couples counseling by yourself! While it’s better to have both people participating in couples therapy, sometimes a reluctant partner is too anxious or unwilling to consider marriage counseling. On your own, you can learn ways to make changes that you can control and start to improve your relationship. Often your reluctant partner will start to notice the changes and will want to start making changes of their own (but not always).
Do you offer sessions on evenings and weekends?
Yes! Most therapists at Well Marriage Center will offer some evening hours for couples who can’t make daytimes work. These spots are limited and we ask that if you can make daytime appointments work to please save evenings for those who can’t. Even more limited are our weekend hours. Currently we offer weekend sessions in our Fairfax (VA) and Frederick (MD) offices….and virtual weekend sessions in DC, Virginia, and Maryland.
Does it matter which therapist we work with?
At Well Marriage Center you work with the same therapist the whole way through the process. Each of our therapists specializes in relationship dynamics and all of them have worked with communication problems, affairs, trauma, addiction/recovery, conflict, loss of love, sex, etc. We recommend prioritizing who can see you most quickly on your preferred day(s) and time(s) rather than trying to wait for a specific counselor to have a new-client opening (which could be weeks). However, we also recognize that “fit” is important. Having preferences about gender or experience is very normal and we encourage you to find someone you’ll be comfortable sitting and sharing with.
How many sessions do most couples do?
There’s really no way of knowing the number of sessions your unique relationship would benefit from until you meet with a therapist. On average, many couples do between 12-25 sessions over the course of 5-12 months. You can read more about this on our Fees & Reimbursement page.
How much does couples counseling cost and do you accept health insurance?
We work hard to make sure our fees are in-step with other licensed specialists in our communities and manageable for most budgets. You can read more specifics about our fees and out-of-network status with health insurance companies on our Fees & Reimbursement page.
Does seeing a couples specialist vs a general licensed therapist make a difference?
We believe it can make all the difference in the world. Our team of therapists focus specifically on relationships which means we often have significantly more training and more relevant experience, two factors that can enhance positive outcomes.
Does marriage counseling really work?
It absolutely can! The reason we’re able to hold so much hope for couples who come through our doors is because we have seen countless relationships be transformed in our offices. The two major keys for successful marriage counseling are the skill of the therapist and the “want-to” of the individuals. This is why we’ve specialized – so we can hold up our end by offering the highest quality marriage counseling services in our communities. If the two of you are ready and willing to explore and change, marriage counseling can be the path to a new and vibrant relationship.
Is Well Marriage Center right for us?
If you are ready to put in the work and hear the truth, even when it’s hard – we are here to help you. Our couples counselors focus solely on relationship dynamics and all the unique challenges that may follow. As long as both partners are working toward the same goal of rebuilding and reconnection we invite you to one of our local offices or online for virtual counseling!
What makes Well Marriage Center counselors relationship experts?
While most general mental health counselors serve primarily individuals with a broad array of challenges, we focus specifically on relationship science and relationship therapy. Most of our ongoing training focuses on relationships and the majority of our clinical work is with couples, not individuals. We are built exclusively around helping partners navigate challenges, rebuild trust, and rediscover connection.
What kind of techniques do your counselors use?
Our therapists stay up-to-date on all the latest techniques and trainings. This includes well known approaches such as the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy, Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real and more!
