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Dr. Paul Birch, LMFT

Fairfax, VA

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience specializing in the treatment and prevention of marital distress. I help couples navigate challenges such as affair recovery, communication and conflict, and compulsive sexual behaviors, while focusing on approaches that promote lasting change. My work is grounded in evidence-based methods and a commitment to helping couples strengthen connection, understanding, and resilience in their relationships.

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Education & Experience

  • Ph.D.  Psychology: Research and Evaluation Methodology, Utah State University
  • M.S.  Marriage and Family Therapy, Brigham Young University
  • 25+ years of experience serving couples and families

Specialties

  • Marital & Premarital
  • Relationship Issues
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Intimacy
  • Communication
  • Sexless/Withdrawn
  • Affair & Infidelity Recovery
  • Family Systems & Life Changes

Trainings, Certifications, and Continuing Education

  • The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Brain Science (Year Long Intensive, Couples Institute), 2020
  • Level 1 Gottman Couples Therapy: Bridging the Couple Chasm
  • Level 2 Gottman Couples Therapy: Assessment, Intervention, and Co-Morbidities
  • Gottman Institute Treating Affairs & Trauma
  • The Marriage Meeting Program: A Strength Based Approach for Successful Relationships
  • Topics in Human Sexuality: Sexual Compulsivity
  • Topics in Human Sexuality: Sexual Disorders and Sex Therapy
  • Treating Complex Trauma: Using Emotive Writing
  • Attachment, Regulation Theory, Relational Trauma
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy – Individual & Group Therapy Through the Lifespan

Dr. Birch’s Approaches include the following:

  • Gottman Method
  • Imago Therapy
  • Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy

Dr. Paul Birch’s fees range from $275 – $330

We are considered out-of-network with insurance providers.
You may be able to receive reimbursement if your plan allows it.

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Real Client Reviews

Lori, Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
January 27, 2023
"Paul is very calm and that engendered a feeling in the room to lessen the sometimes charged air. He followed up with us and seemed to really care how the process was going..."
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Susan, Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
December 20, 2022
"My fiance was not thrilled with the idea of counseling, but now appreciates the value. Even if you're not sure counseling is for you, you can't go wrong with Paul..."
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Monica G., Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
December 20, 2022
"Dr. Birch is easy to speak with and we did not feel any moment of judgement, only care and wanting to help matters. Each session we learned something new, and made positive progress along the way..."
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Lori, Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
January 27, 2023
"Paul is very calm and that engendered a feeling in the room to lessen the sometimes charged air. He followed up with us and seemed to really care how the process was going..."
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Susan, Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
December 20, 2022
"My fiance was not thrilled with the idea of counseling, but now appreciates the value. Even if you're not sure counseling is for you, you can't go wrong with Paul..."
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Monica G., Fairfax VA

Dr. Paul Birch
December 20, 2022
"Dr. Birch is easy to speak with and we did not feel any moment of judgement, only care and wanting to help matters. Each session we learned something new, and made positive progress along the way..."
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Fairfax, VA

  • (571) 495-1731

  • 10605 Judicial Drive, Suite A-1
    Fairfax, VA 22030

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