Randi Kofsky, LMFT
Santa Monica, CA
I’m an LMFT with over 10 years of experience helping couples and families navigate communication challenges, infidelity, sexual desire differences, and trauma. I take a holistic approach, supporting both individuals and their relationship while helping couples understand patterns and create meaningful change. My goal is to guide partners toward clearer communication, deeper connection, and a more fulfilling relationship.
Education & Experience
- M.S. Marriage and Family Therapy, San Francisco State University
- 10+ years of experience serving couples and families
Specialties
- Marital & Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Conflict Resolution
- Intimacy
- Communication
- Sexless/Withdrawn
- Affair & Infidelity Recovery
- Family Systems & Life Changes
Trainings, Certifications, and Continuing Education
- Advanced Training in Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Brain Science (on-going)
- Certified in The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Neurobiology
- Certified Facilitator: Prepare & Enrich, Pre-marital and Marriage Assessment Tool
- Satir Transformational Systemic Therapy: Level 1
- Trauma Resiliency Model, Modules 1 & 2
- Mindfulness for Couples
- Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Therapy for Couples Seminar
- Internal Family Systems and Couples Webinar
- Esther Perel’s Sessions Clinical Training: Focus in Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy
- ADHD and Sex in Couples
- Desire Discrepancy
- From Infidelity to Polyamory
Randi’s Approaches include the following:
- Gottman Method
- Imago Therapy
- Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real
- Emotionally Focused Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I choose the right marriage counselor?
While all our of counselors have years of experience specializing in couples therapy and all the challenges and unique situations that it encompasses, we understand it can feel overwhelming choosing the right therapist. That’s why we offer free 15-minute phone consults so you can start sessions with confidence. Reach out to our intake coordinator today to schedule yours.
How long are couples therapy sessions?
The first appointment (your intake session) is an extended 90 minutes. All following sessions are 50 minutes long. After your intake appointment each of you will have an individual session with your counselor. From there you may have more individual appointments but you will typically attend as a couple.
Do you offer both in-person and virtual appointments?
Yes! We want to ensure that scheduling sessions is as easy and stress-free as possible. You can attend sessions in-office, virtually or opt for a hybrid schedule.







