Victoria Whitfield, LMFT
Fairfax, VA | Alexandria, VA
I’m an LMFT with 10 years of experience helping couples and families navigate relationship challenges, life transitions, and the effects of past trauma. I create a safe, supportive space where partners can be vulnerable, communicate their needs, and strengthen connection. Using approaches like Emotion-Focused Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I help couples break unhelpful patterns, manage conflict, and build stronger, more resilient relationships.
Education & Experience
- MS, Family Therapy, Friends University
- 10+ years of experience serving couples and families
Specialties
- Marital & Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Conflict Resolution
- Intimacy
- Communication
- Sexless/Withdrawn
- Affair & Infidelity Recovery
- Family Systems & Life Changes
Trainings, Certifications, and Continuing Education
- The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Brain Science (Year Long Intensive, Couples Institute), 2024
- Emotion Focused Couples Therapy Externship
- EFT & Sex Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- Understanding Polyamory
- Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional
- EFT – Deepening Emotions & Working with Emotional Blocks
- Exploring the Intersection of Culture, Identity, and Mental Health for Veterans and Their Families
- Harm Reduction Psychotherapy for Problem Substance Use
- Cognitive Processing Therapy
Victoria’s Approaches include the following:
- Gottman Method
- Imago Therapy
- Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real
- Emotionally Focused Therapy








