Melece “Missy” Meservy, LMFT
Short Pump, VA
Every relationship has its own story, shaped by connection, challenges, and shared experiences. I partner with couples to understand patterns that create distance and help replace them with meaningful connection, trust, and emotional attunement. With over 8 years of experience, I guide partners through improving communication, navigating intimacy, and fostering security in a supportive, inclusive, and often playful space. I blend proven techniques with warmth and humor to help couples reconnect, heal, and thrive together.
Education & Experience
- MS, Marriage and Family Therapy, Brigham Young University
- 8+ years of experience serving couples and families
Specialties
- Marital & Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Conflict Resolution
- Intimacy
- Communication
- Sexless/Withdrawn
- Affair & Infidelity Recovery
- Family Systems & Life Changes
Trainings, Certifications, and Continuing Education
- The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Differentiation, Attachment, and Brain Science (Year Long Intensive, Couples Institute), 2026
- Sexual Desire Issues in Couples Therapy
- Sex, Desire & Attachment with Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.: New Science & Strategies to Transform Couples’ Sex Lives
- Modern Romance: Love and Sex in the Age of Social Media
- Seeking Safety: An Evidence-Based Model for Trauma and/or Addiction
- Mental Health First Aid
- Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST)
- Introduction to Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy
- IBCT & OurRelationship.com: A Model for Integration
Missy’s Approaches include the following:
- Gottman Method
- Imago Therapy
- Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real
- Emotionally Focused Therapy








