Counselors

I’m often telling couples that I’m an ally for their marriage relationship.  I’m here to be helpful.  I see things through a systems perspective, meaning I recognize that people both act and are acted upon.  My approach to working with couples is strength-based: finding what is working and building on those strengths to help create change.  Often this process is like good barbecue—slow and low.  It could be something that just needs a little attention or a new set of eyes looking at problems that are keeping you stuck.  Other times the issue is more severe and needs quick interventions.  I work collaboratively with you to discern the process that will work best for your unique relationship.  I’m an active marriage counselor.  I get you to look and talk to each other.  I move around.  I even get you to move around sometimes.  I help and encourage people to try new things in the session.  Ultimately we’re looking for new patterns, deeper connection, and rich intimacy.  I want that for you.